#idk how to tell my mother :(

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im gay and i’ve been hiding it for more than 3 years. i can’t keep up anymore. i need to come out. Everyone keeps telling me to get a girlfriend and i just don’t know how to tell them that i’m gonna end the family bloodline due to being an only child and having no cousins. they are also christian and will be mad at me. help 😔 i need advice please..

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# floral flicker im gay and i’ve been hiding it for more than 3 years. i can’t keep up anymore. i...

I’ve been through this already I come out to my mama and I told her that I liked girls she told me that it was just a faze and that I couldn’t because she was trying to be an ordained minister and back than the church was very judgmental and very strict on being me meaning that it was a no no , I was young so I did cried and it did hurt my feelings and because of it I tried to please her by marrying a man and it was hell I cried so many nights frfr been with him for 11 years than I decided nah you got to live for you so I divorced him and started embracing me and she eventually came around and now she’s an ordain minister and I talk to her a lot and she eventually came around apologized for it in which as I still walk with god I forgave her

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So I say to you tell her with love in your heart and if people don’t accept you please do not do what I did continue to live In your truth and eventually they will come around

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I had other beautiful gays and trans women help me through the way

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thank youuu

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Anytime and remember that this is your life so do what makes you happy because nobody is around it’s just you and baby people shine brighter when they”re living In they truth despite what others think or say because it’s a big community of us and we accept you