#Not actually a big deal

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tough peak
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Chat I wanna cry I washed my hair for the first time in like 2 weeks (pls don't judge) and my mother forced me to put oil in it so my hair is shiny and after spending so much effort and energy it didn't come off Fully and my hair is sticky and I have to go for my first day of school tomorrow (I already missed a week) and I'm far too exhausted to do this and I have no motivation and I'm gonna fuck up tomorrow bc not only that but also my uniform doesn't fit my and the shirt is too big and fits awkwardly and the pants hang really weirdly on me and I look bad and boxy and too skinny:( I wanna cry atp

brittle bison
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lol

sand girder
# tough peak Chat I wanna cry I washed my hair for the first time in like 2 weeks (pls don't ...

Proud of you for washing your hair, no matter the time between washes, if you have any dry shampoo or baby power using a little at the roots of your hair and combing it through should hopefully help with the oil, for your clothes it can help to use hair ties or clips to sintch the clothing and you can tuck them in you help with the shape in small ways. If they are new clothes you'll get used to them and you'll look fine and remember the majority of people won't notice the details like you do and those that do are just looking for reasons to be mean. You've got this 🥹

tough peak
sand girder
tough peak
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I feel better about it now

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My hair doesn't really get oily, it just gets rough and kinda dusty when I don't wash it

sand girder
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Nice :DD I deal with oil hair myself so I'm not sure what will help with rough/dusty so maybe it would help to look up youtube videos or such about it? :))