Soo I'm 14 and ive been part of the community since i was 10. Ive found out i'm Demiboy and stuff but i dont know how to come out/hint to them. I have a small group of friends who call me my chosen name Ashton / Aubrey. I really wanna go to a pride fest/pride event but idk what to do..
#Coming out to religious/homophobic parents
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Soo I'm 14 and ive been part of the community since i was 10. Ive found out i'm ...
Hey Ashton/Aubrey, it’s awesome that you’ve discovered who you are and have supportive friends already! Coming out can feel scary, but it helps to start small and safe. Since your friends already use your chosen name, you might try casually mentioning your pronouns or how you feel about being a demiboy in conversations. For example, say something like, “Hey, I’m figuring out my gender, and I’d love if you called me Ashton and used he/him or they/them pronouns.” This can help them get used to it gradually.
For Pride events, it’s a great idea to go with friends you trust. Look up local events online—many have family-friendly or teen-specific activities. Dress in a way that makes you comfortable and bring some small things like water and snacks. Pride is all about celebrating you, so take it at your own pace, and don’t feel pressured to “prove” anything.
Remember, your journey is yours alone, and it’s okay to take your time. You’re valid and loved exactly as you are. If you want, I can help you practice how to talk about it or find safe spaces online or nearby!