so i have like 2 things i need help with.
- how do i ask my mother if im allowed to use a binder, she is pretty strict but not like homophobic, my dad already bought me a binder but i want to wear it more often. how do i ask her if im allowed to use it?
- so i got a cool pan flag from a friend last year for my birthday but there are some people who say you can't be pan AND ace, they say that has a different name, is that true or can i go by both pan and ace?