My mum said I'm lesbian because I didn't grow up seeing her and dad affection towards eachother.

[full vigil]

My mum wont stop coming up with reasons why someone is gay instead of admitting its biological/psychological.
First it was boys who are soyfed turn gay, then it was girls who grow up with no mum or boys with no dad turn gay, then it was gay parents make gay children, then it was abusive households create gay children, then it was family members s/a children which turns them gay, then it was no father figure so gay boys have daddy issues, then it was grooming by media.

The other day I came out to her and obviously none of these match up since I've predominantly lived with her who is single all my life, so she created a new one saying that because I didn't see 'normal' healthy love I somehow turned gay.

My head hurts soooo bad.

My mum said I'm lesbian because I didn't grow up seeing her and dad affection towards eachother.

[tiny tendon]

Honestly she just can't accept that gay people can just come out the womb gay. Talk to her about it and maybe ask why?

[full vigil]

I really don't get it either its not that hard or deep. There's like 9 billion of us on Earth and everything in Mother Nature has a purpose, besides that you really think every single sex is gonna go after the other? Differences keeps species alive. Also in the animal kingdom gay animals take care of the children when the parents either die or are too busy, this why we have literally millions of children in orphanages, especially disabled children. We can take care of them!!
Sorry for ranting but that's like only a bit of what I want to say to her smh

[tiny tendon]

Happy to listen!

[vapid night]

Are you also going through these and replying to all the ones you can?

[tiny tendon]

Kinda. I've been doing it for a while

Same with J

[full vigil]

I aspire, I do the same thing as I love mentoring lgbt closeted youth but I'm just tired and gotta vent myself lmaoo

[vapid night]

absolutely! Vent all you need we're all ears, I just vented earlier too

[vapid night]

woah! so we're all trying to help

[tiny tendon]

Yea

[full vigil]

well damn theres another reason why I'm mad at homophobia in general, see how nice most of us are?? Like bro we go through so much and it makes us want to help everyone just for us to be called insults all the damn time

[vapid night]

fucking hate that, guy called me the f slur a while back because I'm alternative

[full vigil]

I mean were Queer so reclaim the word, we are f slurs (I don know if we can actually say it in the server)