i'm not good enough

[zealous geyser]

i'm not good enough because i'm ace

my boyfriend talked about him and his friend doing stuff together in the future a couple days ago and it made me so uncomfortable because they see each other all the time and i'm ace so it made me feel like i'm probably just not good enough

both of them are skinny and i'm fat and it's so obvious i'm just not good enough for him

i hate being myself

[zealous geyser]

i just feel so, so inadequate

[rose walrus]

Aww I'm ace too and you're good enough

But I would suggest finding a partner who's also ace, I know it might be difficult because aces are rare but I'm sure you'll find one

[zealous geyser]

no, i love him i just don't really wanna hear if he's doing stuff with other people 🤷‍♂️ it just made me feel shit

im already pretty insecure in my looks so it kinda just made me spiral

[rose walrus]

oh sorry I missed that I literally just woke up 😭

[zealous geyser]

haha dont worry

[rose walrus]

🫂 Oh no! I hope some day you'll be able to acknowledge how beautiful you are

Usually being a good person will make other people see you as beautiful regardless

[zealous geyser]

yeah the guy he talked about messing around with is skinny (as is he) and im fat so it kinda idk. makes me feel like im just ugly LOL

[brazen crescent]

Yer

[zealous geyser]

yeah i hope its how he sees me but i just dont know

[brazen crescent]

U told him about how u don't wanna have sex right?

[rose walrus]

Bigger people can be equally beautiful in my opinion

[brazen crescent]

And it's not bc u don't love him

[zealous geyser]

yeah we're both underage and he thought he was ace too (he knows im ace)

[brazen crescent]

Ok

[zealous geyser]

yeah i think so too, it's just one rule for me, one rule for thee, yk

[brazen crescent]

Do u have a counselor or therapist to talk to?

[zealous geyser]

yeah, she's on holiday this week but i see her next monday

just wanted to like, get this off my chest

[brazen crescent]

Oh that's good!

[zealous geyser]

yes she's great

[brazen crescent]

Always here to help 😝

[zealous geyser]

:]

[brazen crescent]

I'm also going thru sum with disliking my body.

So if u want, we could support each other and stuff

Lemme copy paste the thing

[zealous geyser]

please make your own thread this is my thread :(

[serene crest]

What is ace guy ?

[zealous geyser]

ace = asexual

[rose walrus]

You have no sussy attractions

[serene crest]

Ahhh ok ty

[brazen crescent]

No I was Js copy paste my other to show u

Not for actual advice