#Coming out? What's that? (Struggles from A Questioning Person)

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subtle magnet
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I don't know if I should come out just yet. I told my parents I was non-binary years ago, but I still don't know who I like to be romantic with.

I told my Sister in very confused terms that I might be aro, but then it got shut down. I still don't know who I am.

Is there anything I should do first? Do I need to come out?

atomic trail
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Imma answer this one sentance at a time

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You should only come out when he rdy. If you don't know who u like to be romantic with, then I'm assuming u would come out as questioning correct me if I'm wrong. Why in the world did ur sister shoot u down and what is the context? First of all if you are stressed about coming out, I recommend writing down a script on a piece of paper maybe. If they were supportive of you being nonbinary, then we can prob be confident that they will be supportive of this too. And you never need to come out. Come out when you want to, and to who you want to.

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@subtle magnet

warm egret
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Come out when you're ready to. If you don't know, then you don't know and there is nothing wrong with that. Everyone questions their sexuality at some point in their life, usually disguised as "I'm not interested in anyone right now", which is not untrue.

subtle magnet
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Less stress in the long run.

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I think I might be more in the binary types of romantic interests

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Sadly. It probably makes me boring because everyone else has cooler interests than me.

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Not saying it's good or bad

whole blaze
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It will come soon ngl when you find out who you are