theres this girl who keeps harassing me. shes my ex girlfriend and we got into some pretty bad and terrible fights that ended with her saying "i hope u can forgive me and its ok that u need time" one week later she was trying to talk to me thru discord. another thing to mention is that im a people pleaser. it feels physically painful to say no to people. so i physically couldnt tell her that i didnt want to talk to her. by that point she had already gotten a new gf and they also broke up. she texted me saying she wanted revenge on this person and she wanted my help with it. she told me that maybe we could make her jealous by fake dating, or even stealing. god im happy we didnt go with either of those. so she chose ripping one of her exs drawings off the wall in the school i go to. so she told me to go with her, and when i tried to back out she told me it would make her feel better. so i did it. i helped her rip the drawing off the school wall. later that day she texted me saying she felt so guilty and how much of a terrible person she is. shes tried to guilt me like this before, so i just ignored those fake cries this time. if she gets in trouble, my name is now also plastered on something i never wanted to be a part of. i texted her saying i didnt want to be friends bc of her poor decisions, and that i never really forgave her for all the fights that hurt me so badly. i realized today that i nevef really escaped her lies and manipulation, i only escaped her hatred for me. i have class with her tomorrow. wish me good luck
#i just need her to stop
spice zodiac
uneven spade
I’m gonna be honest here, you got peer pressured into doing something you shouldn’t have. At the same time, it’s understand why that could happen, and I’m sorry there’s someone so toxic in your life. As for what to do, if you haven’t already, try not interacting with her in all forms. Don’t talk to her, block her online, everything. She clearly is only having negative effects on your life, so you need to remove her from it. You’re a people pleaser you say? Use that to your advantage. Think of how many more people you please not participating in her actions than if you continue to follow her.