My coming out issue

[north oak]

My little issue- well- the thing is my parents know im not straight- but are under the impression im lesbian because originally i was in a 4 year relationship with another girl- thing is- Im Bisexual not lesbian- is it bad that im letting my parents believe im lesbian just so i can date a boy worry free- My parents haven't confronted me about anything boy relate in a LONG time, i am currently dating a boy and i love him very very much, im unsure if i should tell my parents now- or- last second-

[dull kernel]

are your parents homophobic or maybe had an hard time accepting your sexuality or have an anti lgbt way of thinking? (like, ok, "we accept you like girls but non of that lbg.. propaganda crap")

[north oak]

My mom no, she only has a issue when it comes to boys, My dad however wasnt as convinced and keeps thinking im confused

[wise slate]

then i would suggest that you tell your mother first and make her promise that she wont tell your dad, and when you think the time is right you can tell your dad

[north oak]

I want to- i really do- but my mom cant hold in water

[wise slate]

do you have any siblings?

[north oak]

None that i can trust- they're all homophobic-

[wise slate]

damn, that's quite a situation.....

ig the best thing to do is to trust your feelings, that sounds a bit dumb but there really isn't any better advice, you know your family the best so try and do what you think makes your family-life the easiest

[dull kernel]

maybe try to introduce a little by little the topic, such as showing your mom a bisexual video, or something light like that, se how she reacts, see how your dad reacts and in case tell them at the last moment.