Problem 1: have a very good friend who 'jokes' about killing herself a ton, and idk what to do. I'm scared, because I am very fragile and I have a past of very bad mental health. (ex: self harm, isolation, and one time I had a set date time plan of killing myself.) Because of this, if she were to kill herself, I might too. I reached out to the school counselor, however not much has changed. Her parents haven't shown much care for her, and mostly disapprove of most of what she does, and I assume this is adding to the issue. She seems happy sometimes, but I can't tell if it is real or fake. What can I do to help her?
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eager crown
Problem 2: I have another ex friend who I started drifting away from recently. We used to hang out pretty much every day, however we are young, and this friend is very obsessed with guns, drugs, and alcohol. She is currently middle of a MTF transition, and I have been trying to support her the way through, however she keeps calling me by the wrong pronouns. Her parents are supportive and are paying for estrogen! The issue with this friend, is that she has openly stated to other mutual friends that she wants to be a wh*re when she grows up, and I just don't like that. One of the main breaking points were that whenever we walk past someone that I know, or anybody really, she will say something extremely inappropriate, rude, or mean, and pretty much ruin my relationship with peers and neighbors. I have autism, and we were walking through the gate of my garden. She pulled it the wrong way, and started cursing (she does this a ton), and saying in a joking way that she was "so autistic😂". This hit close to home. I said to her how this was not good to say, and she has made other rude comments like this before. This time, I tried explaining how it is a bad thing to say, and her excuse was "well sometimes I can js be a little autistic". I crashed out. I started screaming at her, how she has ruined my image with many people, taken up much of my time, and we never do what I WANT TO DO. I proceeded to run away to a Michael's and bought myself 4 packs of gum from the checkout section. I haven't spoken to her since. I want to support her through her transition, but considering how bad of a person she is, my morals tell me to just move on, and ignore her. What do I do??
final sphinx
There is not a lot you can do at least i dont think so, i would just try and be there for her and make sure she knows you are there! It sounds like you care for her a ton. Lets hope they are just jokes right? ^^
eager crown
There is not a lot you can do at least i dont think so, i would just try and be ...
Yeah
We are a small friend group. Just 4 people, and the other 3 are very close knit, so I think she should be fine. Today during recess she was singing dancing and laughing with them, however I'm mostly scared that she will go through a very low low time, and make a bad decision
Also no need to answer, and sorry for pushing, but what do u think about problem 2
final sphinx
Also no need to answer, and sorry for pushing, but what do u think about problem...
oh of course!
if you disagree with the way she thinks and is then that is not good for either of you to keep the friendship, i wish i could say to try and be friends but i cant
break it off, there are way better people who deserve your time more than someone who doesnt respect for people
final sphinx
Also no need to answer, and sorry for pushing, but what do u think about problem...
but ueah, things will end up alright in the end 🫂
final sphinx
Also we in middle school bruh
you both still in middle?! Damn thats rough.
final sphinx
im a sophmore personally lol
eager crown
Aspiring to become a wh*re is kinda weird
final sphinx
Aspiring to become a wh*re is kinda weird
i met a wh*re at a spencers before, chatted for a while. She said she wishes she didnt
eager crown
Also she still tries to like talk to me in the hallways and stuff even after I feel that I've made it clear that I didn't wanna talk to her anymore
eager crown
i met a wh*re at a spencers before, chatted for a while. She said she wishes she...
Sounds about right
I'm not gonna ask what a Spencer's is bc it's prob not pg
And I wanna keep my childhood innocence as long as possible
final sphinx
I'm not gonna ask what a Spencer's is bc it's prob not pg
its like a clothing store, some adult toys in the back
final sphinx
And I wanna keep my childhood innocence as long as possible
if ur going by they/them then its long gone at this point lol
eager crown
if ur going by they/them then its long gone at this point lol
Wym
final sphinx
I was imagining sum like hooters
ive been in one of those as well, they are not as bad as people say they are
final sphinx
Wym
we might see innocence differently, i see it as not knowing about anything sexual
wasnt trying to be offensive, sorry if i was
eager crown
No I didn't take it as offensive
I also think of childhood innocence as like not rly knowing about racism, and all the bad things in the world. Also sexual stuff
Ion rly think of my pronouns as sexual though?
final sphinx
No I didn't take it as offensive
Good ^^
final sphinx
Ion rly think of my pronouns as sexual though?
i usually group them in with sexual preference because often they go hand in hand yknow?
eager crown
Ig
eager crown
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