Came out to my dad. Could have gone better.

[earnest socket]

I told my dad I was trans and he bascically said I was too young to transition. If I was 20 or 25 he would accept me, but 15 is too young. Any tips?

[rough hedge]

Personally I would respond with "it's who I am whether you like it or not", but I'm also a chaotic person... But you could make it obvious you want to stay the gender you want to be, and maybe he will start accepting you, probably realizing you aren't gonna change just because of his comment.

[autumn ether]

hes right

[coarse haven]

what the heck does this mean, this isnt helpful at all

[autumn ether]

how am I supposed to help hes right

[coarse haven]

then just dont say anything

[autumn ether]

you shouldnt have body changing stuff happening to you when youre not even an adult yet

[coarse haven]

or he could support them and just say that hes not comfortable with them medically transitioning yet

[autumn ether]

isnt that what hes saying tho

[coarse haven]

not really

what it looks like is he is saying is that he wont accept them till they are older

[autumn ether]

I thought he just meant that they are too young to transition

[coarse haven]

i mean technically they arent

[autumn ether]

and that it would be better at an older age

[half schooner]

It's not helpful, though

[earnest socket]

he bascically said that

but even social transition was bad at my age in his opinion

[coarse haven]

i mean ig i get medically transitioning bc its basically permanent, but i think social transitioning isnt bad and that you should be able to

[earnest socket]

he said wait a few years

[coarse haven]

sad

[earnest socket]

yes very sadge