#Is it worth coming out as aro-ace?

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sour osprey
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I'm kind of conflicted because on one hand i'm not really limited by not coming out, but on the other my dad is always talking about girls, sometimes in ways that make me uncomfortable. I'm not really sure if the risk of rejection is worth not having to sit through those conversations though

raw obsidian
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if you want to come out, you can try and work up the courage to do it. You could also try to ask you dad to stop talkig about girls in the way he does to you bc it makes you uncomfortable with out coming out, it depends on what you want to do and how comfortable and safe you feel telling him or not telling him

small geyser
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I think at some point you will HAVE to tell them, right? I assume you do not want to get married or have relationships, and while you can keep the "im not having any luck" game for a bit, that facade will crumble eventually. I think it'd be better to nip it at the bud and just tell them