#did i overreact?

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sand hinge
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a few minutes ago, i just lost the 3 friends that i actually trust, including my bsf (best friend).

I felt really upset at Friend A because she treated me like a stranger and got me kicked from Friend C's server, it really upsetted me which lead me into ignoring her. But still, after ignoring her, i still felt really pissed and upset which lead me into crashing out on her. My other 2 friends saw this and was really upset, they all started attacking me.. I felt so betrayed, they didnt even ask for a reason until 5 minutes later? They even said my reason to be upset at her wasnt valid. im not sure about this still, was my reason valid?

what happens next is i end up feeling guilty and leave the group chat, sending them a goodbye paragraph, then blocking all of them as they didnt see me as their friend anymore, it just sucks.

Why did i get upset over her treating me like that? I couldve just ignored that, but i think i might have overreacted.

I just need advice on moving on from them. ive been friends with them for over 1 year, they mean a lot to me.. more than my family.

Please dont mind my horrible grammar, im really bad at english (sorryryry) :6white_scribbleheart:

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If im in the wrong, how can i learn from my mistakes? like what shouldve i done instead of only ignoring her

vapid sierra
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Well if they all did something wrong then that means they probably weren’t good friends. And honestly? Find better friends then them. (Sorry if this is very blunt or straight forward.) but they shouldn’t have done that.

tight sedge
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I agree with lunarJax. I don't really think you overreacted at all. Your feelings are completely valid and I think the best thing you can do now (my opinion) is to just take a deep breath and keep moving. The loss of a good friend/s is hard, you may mourn that friendship for a long time, but you will form new ones! perhaps even better than before.