#Am I in the wrong?

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vast schooner
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my boyfriend keeps asking me to move to Florida with him but I keep saying no because it's much harder to get my meds for transition there and because I love living in Maine, am I in the wrong? I also feel like my boyfriend isnt listening to me and its driving me nuts

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(please ping me if you reply otherwise I wont see it as I get distracted easily)

zenith basalt
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I think your in the right. Mostly because it’s your confort zone. As to you need your medications and your comfortable in Maine. But your boyfriend on the other hand shouldn’t force you to go with him since your uncomfortable with it. So no your not in the wrong @vast schooner

vast schooner
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why dont people listening to me when I give good advice!

zenith basalt
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Idk

vast schooner
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sorry..

zenith basalt
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Your good. But I question why your boyfriend doesn’t listen to you. Like have you told him your uncomfortable going to Florida?

vast schooner
zenith basalt
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That sucks. He should understand your feelings and stuff

vast schooner
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I feel like a broken record

zenith basalt
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I don’t really know how to help. Maybe try and tell him to drop the talk for now?

vast schooner
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I have and he stops for a little while and then brings it up again

zenith basalt
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Damn. Does he treat you correctly besides the conversation?

vast schooner
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yes

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he treats me and all our lovers correctly, but he wont listen to me on this issue and its starting to make me so mad!

zenith basalt
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What if you told him your feelings? Like feelings about the conversation and about how you don’t want to go to Florida. And explain it to him. Maybe then he’d start to understand. I’m trying to think of suggestions

vast schooner
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I love Maine, I was born and raised here, I love the forests, the snow, the places, I have been to florida alot and I hate it there, it has swamps and poisonous animals and boiling hot summers, and a horrible state government that has made it extremely hard to transition

vast schooner
zenith basalt
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Well that sucks

vast schooner
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like I feel like I have to yell at him at this point and I dont want to do it

zenith basalt
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I don’t have any other suggestions really. That does seem frustrating though

vast schooner
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and I made an oath that I would never live in a red state except for Maine since Maine gets a home state exception

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if Maine turns red

zenith basalt
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Makes sense

vast schooner
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like do I need to yell at him just to get him to listen?

zenith basalt
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Probably

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In order to get into his thick mind you might have to yell at him.

vast schooner
zenith basalt
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Rip

vast schooner
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?

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You are right

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I swear I'm going to yell at him like an Irish woman if he doesn't listen

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I'm irish

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No

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He is just really stubborn

prisma hedge
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so could someone please give me a quick explanation of whats happening please?

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yeah i know but i wanna know what everyone is saying cause there are a lot of messages and im too lazy to read them

vast schooner
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@prisma hedge

prisma hedge
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yeah?

vast schooner
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There's the first message for you