#I Need Help..

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random sand
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for about 3 mounths now i have been bi
i havnt told anyone and before i tell friends and stuff
i want to come out to my mum

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ik she isnt homophobic

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but when my older brother was younger he told our grandperants before anyone that he was bi and some of my grandperants were homophobic

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Can anyone Help?

neat patio
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Greetings!

random sand
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hi

neat patio
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@random sand

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So, you need help coming out. What info do you have about your mother, is she supportive of lgbt?

random sand
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i dont really know

neat patio
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Well, has she ever mentioned lgbt in a bad way?

random sand
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maybe but if she has i cant remember

neat patio
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Well, maybe try to bring it up in casual conversation

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That’s how I would do it.

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Always be cautious

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If you don’t know how someone will react. You have to learn more about them

random sand
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ok so what do i do if she is homophobic

neat patio
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That is a good point. I suggest you make sure she would not over react.

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if she does over react it could end badly.

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And I don’t want you to get hurt.

random sand
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yeah i mean my brother didnt end up well after he told my grandperants

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that he was bi

neat patio
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What happened?

random sand
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i was very young and a cant remember much but
my grandperants would not let him stay over any more and saying that "he wasnt my grandchild"

neat patio
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That’s horrible… part of the reason I am scared to come out to anyone irl..

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but you also need to take other factors into account.

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would your mother. Tell others?

random sand
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maybe but if i told her not to she would still tell my dad and stuff

neat patio
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Has that happened before?

random sand
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i dont know

neat patio
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Well, ask her to not tell your father.

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Fathers usually judge more than mothers.

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Best to keep it safe.

random sand
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fair

neat patio
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so, before you can do anything major. Scouting is always the best thing to do. You don’t want to colonize a planet you don’t know the conditions of.

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you’d prepare for the wrong things.

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same here.

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Get info

random sand
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ok thank you for this this will help

neat patio
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And if you ever need anything else

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DMs are open!

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@random sand oki?

random sand
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ok thanks so are mine. hope you have a good day