#helping a gay friend

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knotty hull
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My friend just came out to me as bi and im the only one who knows besides his parents. He wants to know how to find my gay people in his grade/school but doesnt know how. Does anyone know anything he can do to help him get a boyfriend in his school, or at least find more gay people he can befriend. Im a lesbian and know pretty much nothing about men. Do guys have anything like how lesbians have girl in red?

loud pecan
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just from my experience dating and having lots of gay friends, every gay guy knows every other gay guy in a 5 mile radius (hyperbolically speaking), so what i will say right now is to expect him to have a lot of people against him since every gay dude is every other gay dude's ex. that aside, queer people in general tend to hang around other queer people, and you can find those in theater/tech crew programs, cheer (if your school lets men on the cheer team), and even band

knotty hull
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no one else knows hes gay though besides me, he says he knowns only 4 other gay dudes and they are all weird to him.

west crypt
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Bro
Idk how to help you, but I almost cried when I saw you're message

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I wish my friends did that for me

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Or even cared

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Ur true keeper

west crypt
knotty hull
# west crypt Or even cared

omfg thank you so much actually. Yesterday i had an episode thinking I was a bad friend. This is what I needed to hear. Thank you

west crypt
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I know soo many gays artists

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Like I have a fucking playlist

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Or I can send them to you or him

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Ur wish

knotty hull
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send them to me, ill send them to him