I really don't know what to do. This is about me ( 14 y/o ) and my brother ( 19 y/o ), he had a relationship and me too, I ended up breaking up with my partner bc he was a toxic person who kept controlling me. My brother helped me and gave me courage to broke up with him and that's what I did. Now he's stalking me. What do I do ?, and my brother, he broke up with his girlfriend because she cheated on him. Now, he said to me that he's taking || drugs || and didn't know what to do, he feels very tired and he can't keep it up rn. Same for me, I can't keep doing this, I've staying "clean" for a whole year now I want to do sh again, but I'm too scared to my mom finding out about that. What do I do now ? What I am supposed to do, how can I help him ? How can I help ME. I can't do this anymore ( my first language is NOT english, please have patience with me.
#TW: sensitive content?? / addictions, sh and sui. I don't know if this is allowed, but I need help.
fervent quartz
quick vine
In my eyes, telling your mother would be the best thing to do in this situation, based of the info you've given at least
unborn hatch
In my eyes, telling your mother would be the best thing to do in this situation,...
I agree with this, especially about the stalking.
lavish sage
yeh your mom should know about the stalking and maybe even letting police know cause its really just creepy and weird of him its hard seeing your brother go through these times and just hoping that he will be fine but he can make it through he can do this i really havent dealt with much situations where people use drugs so i dont really know how you could get someone off of a addiction like that maybe just try to look some stuff up for it
fervent quartz
tysm guys and yes, of course I talked to my mom about it. A few days ago, I asked one of my ex-classmates from a school if they knew if my ex was still there, and they said no. My mom said that if he decides to transfer to my school, she'd take legal action to ensure he couldn't get close to me. As for my brother, I talked to him for a while, and he promised he'd would quit the ||drugs||. He said to me that he was feeling better, and talking to me was good for him.
I didn't realize before how bad was that relationship,,
btw, my mom talked to his mother bc he was stalking a LOT, she didn't want to say to me what she said,, but ig he won't do it again I hope