coming out to my religous parents

[gusty night]

so i need advice on coming out to (slightly strict) muslim parents as bi, what do i do i need advice.

[gusty night]

i need advice

coming out to my religous parents

[rapid gate]

are they homophobic and are you still financially dependent on them?

[balmy tiger]

test them, come up with a hypothetical theoretical story that is identical to yours to test if they would support someone. or even ask a more easier to reach family member and tell them and get them to help you, mabye you have some family members that can be on your side?

[gusty night]

idk how cause they would get suspicious keep in mind i know them well enough that they would know if i asked.

[gusty night]

1 - idk 2 - yes im 13

[balmy tiger]

dont have anyone in your family to talk to?

[gusty night]

no not really other than my friends.

my mum would 100% get suspicious.

cause i know her well.

[balmy tiger]

idk man good luck ig

[rapid gate]

then id advise you to wait because they may kick you out

If i were in your situation then i would wait

[balmy tiger]

thats probably wut imma do as well lol

[balmy tiger]

heyy twins

[rapid gate]

imma wait until i move out

[balmy tiger]

same

[gusty night]

well they care for me but they are okay with OTHERs being gay and i know that they don't discriminate

but with me, are they gonna be exactly happt (my other family not household are very strict)

so im kinda worried...

[gusty night]

what do i do.

cause i might be missing an opportunity.

[balmy tiger]

just leave it be

[gusty night]

i guess.

[rapid gate]

its your choice

im not sure what theyre like so im not sure what else to say sry

[gusty night]

aw.

[gusty night]

fair but idk thats why im worried my mums gonna be mad or okay

[balmy tiger]

why do you think i hate religous people regardless of their religion. and nobody can say thats offensive or anything, bitch its self defense. their offensive to us why not be back right?

[gusty night]

my parents are okay with other people AND some of my old friends kinda judged me for it earlier and i did not give a shit i ate them up.

[balmy tiger]

cool

[gusty night]

so like... im pakistani and muslim they judged me i did not care.

@balmy tiger ---

but it was different

i never really got judged that way but i expected it.

so i didn't care plus i got a bf i got my friends i dont need anyone else i got my family too ig.

[gusty night]

hm i havent told my parents shit yet

[gusty night]

i have a bf they dont know either abt it nothing.

i don't know what to do.

[gusty night]

yes both my parents are pakistani so yeah.

@summer locust ---

[gusty night]

yea i am also pakistani 🇵🇰