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Do not be afraid to come out. It’s scary, I know and not everyone’s going to agree with your changes. But, be kind to yourself. And make sure to have good timing-… There is no perfect time to come out. In fact, the best time will probably change depending on who you want to tell. Sometimes, it is helpful to wait for a time when the person you tell feels relaxed, open, and willing to listen. Other times, you may need to share at a random moment. It is about whenever it feels right to you. Make sure to have great support systems from family or friends! Think about people in your life who would support you no matter what. Sometimes, coming out doesn’t go according to our hopes and plans. If people don’t react the way we wish, it does not reflect on the realness of our identities, and it is not our fault. You deserve to be accepted with open arms, care, and love. In situations where things are feeling unsafe or you expect that they might be, it could make sense to prepare a back-up plan for housing, food, school, and/or transportation, just in case. Be safe out there, lovelies. 💜
XOXO,
Your Local Lesbian Mom 💜
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