#I feel like I'm both gender but neither at the same time

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sturdy kestrel
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So I dont know if Im gender fluid or non-binary but either way its extremely cofusing and I hate it could somebody help???

midnight sequoia
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sure

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so do you like wearing woman clothing @sturdy kestrel

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or men

dusky saffron
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well, genderfluid you can feel feminine, masculine, or also nonbinary! as for nonbinary you dont feel feminine or masculine! (i could also be wrong but if i were you i would look into it!)

sturdy kestrel
sturdy kestrel
harsh blade
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As someone who first IDed NB but now agender more specifically, honestly, I feel like everyone's experience with what they think fits them is a bit different... For me I think I mainly dress a little more masc/neutral but still don't mind dresses/skirts/ other things more fem. I just don't find myself considering gender at all- I feel I exist and that's about it

sturdy kestrel
harsh blade
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All good! I think the most important thing is to consider your experience- others' like mine may help guide you, but ultimately it is what you feel best identifies you!

sturdy kestrel
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You explained it wonderfully but I still dont know what I would identify as... I might build in minecraft while i think about this

harsh blade
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Don't worry- and don't rush! I've been debating on whether I'm apl or on the spectrum of that

wild ore
# sturdy kestrel So I dont know if Im gender fluid or non-binary but either way its extremely cof...

Sorry if someone has already said this, but you could be genderflux. " Genderflux refers to a gender identity where the intensity of a person's connection to their gender fluctuates over time. It's a form of genderfluidity where the focus is on the strength or weakness of the feeling associated with a particular gender, rather than the gender itself changing. For example, someone who is "girlflux" might sometimes feel strongly female, other times feel weakly female, and at other times feel agender."[definition] so sometimes you can be fully male/female and others say Demi for instance or even agender (hope this is just a thing that you can look into { I am not gender flux so I can't name off any experiences but hope this helps with you finding anything)

dusky saffron