I dont know what to do anymore

[loud sandal]

I am a trans male stuck in a homophobic household, they all say they aren’t homophobic and will support people no matter what by my mother has just been screaming at me for the past 30-45 minutes telling me in a girl, deadnaming me and belittling my feelings like im nothing. I honestly dont know what to do anymore.

[worn spear]

You need to find someone who can support you, a friend, a partner, a teacher, anyone. Your parents will just keep doing that kind of thing to you, so don't bring it up ever again if possible. Just wait this out and it will get better, I guarantee you

Also if you ever need someone to just vent to, you can dm me

[humble sparrow]

i agree fully with grenadecat and you can also dm me im always a good listener filled with advice

[loud sandal]

I have my partner and his family, he helps me but lately my mother has been getting worse and its draining, it gets to the point im scared to even be around her because she will randomly start an argument

I appreciate the offer for vents as well, you are both very kind

[drifting loom]

I would say if you're able to try and start communicating less with them. If they're not gonna support you, spend time with the ones who will. Have fun with the people who don't care about you being trans, and see you for you. Also finding people in your school or grade who's also a part of lgbtq or supports definitely helps.

[worn spear]

Ofc, we all gotta stick out for each other sometimes. And as for dealing with your mom, I'd recommend just disengaging from any arguments she starts. Don't give her any fuel and she'll most likely realize she's fighting with herself. I know you can get through this but plz don't be afraid to ask for help cause that's a scary situation you're in right now

[loud sandal]

My boyfriend called the police for me when she did it and they are putting us a referral for a social worker so we can try and get some support and they have logged it as a hate crime so hopefully if it happens again they will be able to take proper action

[drifting loom]

I truly hope something gets out into place. You deserve justice

[loud sandal]

Thank you 🤍

[worn spear]

That's really great! I hope this works out for you