Today a girl asked me if I wanted to be her partner... But I'm Aroace..
[as far as I know she has a boyfriend]
Since I don't feel the same way about her, I told her politely, but... She took it the wrong way and looked depressed, I guess it's normal, right? Her friends looked disappointed, I guess even angry with me-
But it was better to tell her the truth than to put on a show and hurt her more.
I don't know, my head is spinning. I don't know what to think. For some reason, I feel guilty for seeing her in that state, but I really don't feel anything for her.
I'm a little paranoid-
I hope it was understood well, I'm not good at expressing myself-
[I speak Spanish... I hope what I said was translated well...]
#It's nothing serious but I need help-
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you shouldnt feel guilty, its normal for her to be sad but its not your fault. if she doesnt understand why just explain that your aroace to her again. if her friend is still angry thats their problem