#how should i come out to my family and friends as genderfluid?

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desert wyvern
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I’ve been questioning my gender identity for 2 years now. I tried coming out as trans a year ago, and was met with widespread bullying among my peers irl and online, and I was forced to go back in the closet

I identify as a guy currently, but on a lot of days I feel more feminine and i try to dress with more androgynous clothing without batting much of an eye from anyone

I think I might be genderfluid? I’ve been growing my hair out progressively and trying to tie my hair up into ponytails, etc

whenever I ask my friends for advice on how to tie my hair up, they always ask why, and I always gotta lie and say “just curious” etc

I’ve only told one other person this, and I think I’m ready to go out into the world as who I am, and I’d like a bit of guidance on how to come out fully, how to access HRT (estrogen) and how to really do all that lol

wet basalt
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im on the same boat as you, ive only started coming out to the communities that i talk in that im trans and thinking of doing all the legal stuff in the far future

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in terms of "dressing feminine" you could try to grow your hair out, buy feminine ripped jeans, (nobody would probably try to bat an eye

desert wyvern
bright surge
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That's it to it