So a few days ago I kinda started to realized I liked both genders and I feel like this is where I belong however... I haven't told anyone and i'm genuinely scared to because I dont have many friends and is not sure how my family would react. And if they do have a negative reaction my depression might get worse and I definitely don't want to start spiraling into depression again after working so hard to be happy. So i'm just not sure what to do.
#i'm pan but i haven't told anyone
timid kindle
hybrid lotus
if you want to tell someone, i’d suggest you to firstly try and talking to them about the topic to see their reaction to the lgtbq community in general, if they seem like they don’t care/they support us i think you could tell them because you wouldn’t have to expect a negative reaction, however if they react in a negative/rude way id say you shouldn’t tell them, for me, i decided i’m just not gonna tell anyone except a few close online friends because i just don’t feel the need to tell someone, like i mean if you’re straight you also don’t go to your family and say like “ya so i’m straight” if i ever have a gf they’ll see, so it’s completely up to you, and if you decide to tell someone it’s always smart to firstly talk about the topic to find out if the person is homophobic <3
timid kindle
if you want to tell someone, i’d suggest you to firstly try and talking to them ...
the only thing is if i did suggest something to anyone i know the would most likely pick up the hint. If i told anyone at school the news would spread like wildfire and i would 100% be bullied and made fun of and probably lose all my friends.
plus if i did tell my family i dont think i would be ready for the mental side of it and could possibly become mentally unstable
hybrid lotus
okayy, in that situation, maybe u should keep it to yourself for now or talk abt it with online friends? or do you want to tell it people?
timid kindle
i think keeping it online sounds like the best option.. thanks for the help!
hybrid lotus
ofc ! <3