#I don't how to come out to my mom that I use they / them pronouns

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strong dove
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I don't know how to come out as non binary. She already knows that I am pan tho, so like idk what to do. Can anyone help? Like do I wait till I'm like 17-19? (I'm 15 rn) I'm confused and I need help-

strong dove
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So I js want help

dense sail
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It’s a big step, but it sounds like your mom already knows some things about you, so she might be more ready to hear this than you think, It’s totally okay to wait until you feel safer or more confident, whether that’s next month or a few years from now.

next cloud
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You could do something similar to what I did. When I was telling my dad, originally, that I was trans, I used a note because I was so scared. Whenever I'm scared about a topic, I close up. I physically cannot speak when I do, or I'll end up having a breakdown.

But she seems to already be supportive. You should be able to just outright tell her.

south briar
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my advice would be to wait