#need help.,.,.

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livid dove
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(reposting to clean things up and since my last post never really got much attention)

so errr i really wanna come out as trans (transfem) to my parents but im just really nervous.,.,. ive known im trans for a few years now and i really just wanna finally be able to wear more feminine clothes and grow my hair out but it just makes me feel nervous to even think about coming out,.., ik my biological parents are supportive but idk about my step mom and her side of the family (i have a decent relationship with her family but with my step mom herself its been kinda rocky) as theyre pretty religious n stuff and my step mom has been trying to push religion onto me and everyone else more than usual lately so im just worried smth is gonna go wrong even tho it probably wont. alongside that idk how to tell my parents without it feeling awkward. ive already told them before about 2-3 years ago but i think they forgot and it was already a struggle to get the courage to tell them the 1st time and i dont really know anyone else in my family who is lgbtq as well other than maybe my step sis but idk if shes come out or not and even then i think my step mom kinda just dismissed it

while on the topic i decided i might as well include this, i have no clue what my sexuality is, i like both boys and girls but sometimes more or less than usual or not at all for one of them sometimes

anyways uhhhhh sorry if this is a lot, if u actually read this all then ty ❤️

calm frost
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When your not sure about the your step mom, you can try to talk to your father alone, you can try before talking with hin to go through your thought how you can tell him who you really are. And important is also to have a Comortable Inviroment what often helps a bit with the stress. And with your step mom, you can maby try bring it casually up, and see how she reacts to the theme trans. I really hope this just somehow helped you, I wish you all the best <3

livid dove
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tyyy :DD

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ill try that in the future, maybe with my biological mom instead of my dad tho cuz i feel way more comfortable when talking to her tbh

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will probably be a lil while tho cuz shes out of the state rn for work

calm frost
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I wish you the best and that it will work perfectly! uwu