#genderfluid/demiboy issue

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round cosmos
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I can't figure out if I'm actually genderfluid or a demiboy. I want male terms and male pronouns + seen as a male but I am very feminine and I feel uncomfortable being grouped with cis guys or treated as cis. So I'm very stuck on what I am.

bleak sorrel
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Hello Blackberry!
It really depends on how you feel.
For me as a genderfluid person, it was some days I'd feel more masculine than feminine and the other way around and sometimes I'd want to be a male and have a male's body but then I liked my female body and wanted to be female. I was told that this is the exact definition of being genderfluid.

But being a demiboy is where you don't feel 100% connected to you gender or masculinity. Demiboys don't fully identify as a boy or man, but they do feel a partial connection to that gender identity.
I think what feelings you are having points towards the demiboy side, but then again, that's for you to decide! I advise you do some more reasearch before deciding though!

round cosmos
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This really helps😭

bleak sorrel
round cosmos
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Ok update: I'm questioning if I'm demiboy or boyflux. Boyflux seems to fit more into my category but I'm a bit hesitant.