Trans and non binary at the same time?

[light canopy]

I need techniques to explain my gender identities better to my friends, as some expect me to choose only one... How do I make them understand that I like dressing androgynously pretty often without them having expectations of me always dressing super feminine?

[tidal reef]

I’m in the same situation
So… just tell them you are both! I know a person other than me (trans and non binary) who does this exact thing, and i don’t see why it should be a problem