#Having troubles with friends

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kindred glen
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I'm having trouble with friend because one day after a dance I called my friend who was having a sleepover with my bestie.

Being goofy me and my bestie do a fake wedding and get fake married as a joke. Later I find out my bestie think we're DATING even when I talk about my boyfriend frequently to both my bestie and my friend. Though do to inconvenience of him not having his electronics I can't talk to him.

Is there a way to get out of this while keeping my friendships?? I've been losing sleep over this and don't know what to do. Any advice would be helpful.

slate oriole
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Just... you just can tell them the wedding was fake and you have a bf in the sofest way possible

kindred glen
kindred glen
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I mean I could try but I hope it works

kindred glen
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So uhmm

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I told them I went ti homeschool all my friends disappeared

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It's fine I'll make new ones

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:3

slate oriole
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Like everyone??? They also thought the wedding was true or like what? item

kindred glen
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I'll give some back story

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Basically I was new to the friend group because I was originally homeschooling before I joined a public school so they were a group of people I hung out with after joining school. Anyways, do they told everyone is the group that we were dating, which we aren't, and when I told them what happened my side, and that missed a step of asking me out before deciding that we were dating, the girl flipped and twisted my words to the rest of the friend group

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That lead to me being kicked out of the group and I told my mother all what happened and she put me back in homeschooling

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These were my word btw: "Hey Name, can we talk?" (She says sure)
"Alright, I heard you think we are dating after having that fake wedding? I'm sorry to inform you that you may have missed a step to that. You should have asked me out before deciding that we are dating. I'm sorry if this hurts you but I just don't like you like that as well. Your my best friend and I don't want that to change. I also am still together with my boyfriend. I hope you understand, if you still want to be friends that's fine this won't change the way I see you."

slate oriole
kindred glen
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Yeh

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I'm not really sure what she said but they all turned on me

slate oriole
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I'm sorry but they are not worthy because it just doesn't make any sense

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They decided to say you were dating and when you say it isn't true they leave you as the bad guy???

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Zero sense

kindred glen
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Right??

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It's fine though, I'm good at making friends

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I'll find other people

slate oriole