I'm lesbian but I feel like I'm pan and my parents say they support but they seem a bit irked by the whole LGBTQ+ community and I've always told them I am straight because I'm worried about them judging me. My older brother is also sorta homophobic and he really hates that most of my friends aren't straight and that we are more odd I guess? My little sister knows about it and so do my friends but how do I tell them? They talked to me not too long ago about me being comfortable to tell them anything, but I just dont? Like they've gone through my phone and laptop multiple times and at this point I'm not even allowed my phone in my room past 9. Plus I feel like they already suspect it but I feel weird telling them cause they still treat me like I'm 10. What do I do I'm so confused 😭
#How do I come out exactly?
novel wasp
rocky vale
Tbh I feel like the best thing you could do atm is wait and see for yourself when you think is a safe moment to come out. If your parents don't really support the LGBTQ and neither does your brother, I suggest you wait (if you are not too uncomfortable with that, I used to identify as a lesbian and I get how annoying it is to pretend you are straight in front of others 😭)