my bf

[fervent crag]

how to make my bf respect lgbtq cuz he says its disgusting i really wanna make him respect them and i havnt told him about me

[stone tide]

You mean the lgbtq community? Or all the lgbtq in general?

[fervent crag]

in general

[stone tide]

Oh, then he doesn't respect others, but he respects you? Because I can see that you're trans in your profile

and bi as well

[fervent crag]

he doesn't know

it's not smth in my body it's how i feel i just feel sometimes that i'm a girl

I was trying to hint to him but he didn't understand

he always find me cute cuz im short untill i knew that he hates lgbtqs

idk why but he hates them much and i feel that if he knew he would end our friendship

[stone tide]

Oh...

[stoic trellis]

(If you’re comfortable telling) what’s your gender?

[fervent crag]

i'm male but i feel im female sometimes

and i attracted to booth

both

[stoic trellis]

I’m sorry if this is rude in a way, but if your boyfriend sees you as a boy, wouldn’t that make him a part of the lgbtq+ community?

[fervent crag]

how

[stoic trellis]

I thought he was a boy, dating you who is biologically a boy

Apologies if I got mixed up

[fervent crag]

im biologically a boy

[fervent crag]

no problem

[stoic trellis]

I meant as in he is a boy, dating you who is biologically a boy, wouldn’t that make him gay? I’m just wondering this cause I’m pretty sure it would make him queer (not 100% though) even though he thinks being lgbtq+ is gross

[fervent crag]

he's my childhood friend

he didn't date me

he didn't date anyone

[stoic trellis]

ohhhhh mb, i thought bf meant boyfriend as in dating

💔

knowing now that hes a childhood friend, maybe just straight up tell him. hes known you for so long and must like you, so it might work. if he doesnt respect you, then you know what? maybe he doesnt deserve your friendship

[gusty badge]

exactly bro.

I was so confused as well

[fervent crag]

you were in the same situation

[fervent crag]

he's not just my bf he was my only irl friend and he defended me many times and i fear to lose him i wanna tell him but not direct i wanna make him accept us then tell him

so i asked how to tell him cuz i feel confused when i see him

[fervent crag]

i meant best friend but im lazy to write

[gusty badge]

right

[fervent crag]

what did you do

[gusty badge]

I kissed him

and he liked it

[fervent crag]

if you wanna me end our friendship that would work

He never actually got his first kiss so i think that won't work

[fervent crag]

i think no one has smth can work