#Coming out

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rugged pumice
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So, I'm transmasc and I'm gay. How do I tell my parents don't know. And they're extremely religious. How do I tell them? Tips or suggestions?

woeful viper
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Hiii

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I think the best way to come out is to first of all accept the fact that there is a chance that they will not "accept you" as you are even if you already are so there is nothing to accept

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The second thing is maybe talk to them after they are in their mood

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At dinner after a great day, while watching a funny movie or doing something that makes them happy

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The third thing is that religion and LGBT are not completely opposite, God is love and he loves us all, without caring about sex gender or anything, people don't seem to understand that but god's love has no conditions and ours shouldn't either

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So if your parents are kind souls they may know that

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Try maybe to write a letter before talking to them so you're prepared, my dad likes arguments but of course you don't have to give reasons to why you're the way you are, looks for reasons why you embrace yourself and how you discover it so they can understand you

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Of course I'm giving you all my love and support and if you have any questions don't hesitate pleading_cute

rugged pumice
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Thank you so much

woeful viper