Coming out to my bf

[turbid delta]

Okay, so I have been a femboy for a good while and have been on HRT for about 3 years, but I've never really been happy with myself :<

I have been in therapy as well and have decided that a full transition would make me a lot happier than just trying to be as feminine as I can. That's the backstory.

Now to the problem, I met my boyfriend about a year ago and we are together for 4 months, he is the greatest person on earth, loving, caring and the first to actually show feelings towards me :3 He doesn't know anything about this yet and I am trying to come out to him.

How do I do that without scaring him away potentially? I really live him and loosing him due to dropping such a bomb on him would be terrible :<

[lost mortar]

Maybe tell him very slowly? I'm sorry, I suck at comforting people but I always try my best ❤️

[turbid delta]

That is something I thought about but not quite sure how I can tell such a thing slowly :<

[lost mortar]

Ask him if he supports femboys perhaps

[covert crag]

Do you know anything about his sexual orientation?

[turbid delta]

We are together, so he must be. I am guessing

[turbid delta]

Yeah he is pansexual, I made him buy stickers to figure that out :3

[covert crag]

Then there's a decent chance that he will support You, I'd say go for it when you're ready.

[turbid delta]

I do feel ready. I am just a bit afraid of the results. I would love to ask one of his friends to ask him for his opinion on transsexuals, but none of them like me :<

Tried even joining some servers he is on and check if he has any friends there that could ask, I am literally here as a last resort for advice :<

[covert crag]

You would call it transsexual where you're from? Because in the US we call it transgender. But in general I do think that he will be quite supportive. You are Probably Heads on the On the heads or tails Spectrum. I made the heads or tailed spectrum up. But heads means, you have a good chance of him Accepting.

[turbid delta]

Term over here is interchangeable from what I know :3

Thank you, though I'll still try to covertly get his opinion on it somehow even if I have to hire someone to just ask him :/

[covert crag]

Dude, Just tell him. From my experience the best way is just to tell him. Because if you're a bit too covert about it. Uh he will get pissed.

But my experience is with sexuality.

[turbid delta]

You are right... he does like me being direct, I'll try to talk to him in a bit, no real point in waiting then :3

[covert crag]

Tell me the results, man.

[turbid delta]

Will do :3

[covert crag]

sent friend req.

[turbid delta]

Accepted

[rapid oak]

I know im a bit late but i just wanna wish you luck with your transition! Im sure it'll turn out great :>

[turbid delta]

Thank you so much :3

[turbid delta]

update:
HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE

He is supporting me fully here, he did have the "bombshell dropped" expression but ultimately said he fell in love with me not my gender so as long as I have thought it trough he supports me all the way :3

Thank you again to all the supportive individuals and the encouraging words, once I begin the process I'll update everything again :3

[covert crag]

[rapid oak]

YOOOOO, CONGRATS!