#does it even matter if i come out ngl

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woeful condor
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You don't have to come out if you're not ready, do it only if when you feel it is time to do so

hard cedar
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it's not that i'm not ready as per say

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i'm just confused if i even need to lol

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or if it matters

woeful condor
# hard cedar or if it matters

Well, personally, I think that if you don't want anything to change, you shouldn't come out. Especially if your parents are close minded. If you don't come out, they will probably never find out your orientation

hard cedar
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yeah p much what i thought

limber stump
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I'm aroace too and realized that you never need to come out to your family, if you don't want to. It doesn't matter, just live your life however you want, they don't need to know

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My mother basically pressured me into comming out, cause she wanted a reason for me not wanting to date anyone and it didn't go well, so I just ignore her

hard cedar
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well that's a problem for later

limber stump
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nah, I'm just gonna move to my partner once I got my degree and then I'm gone

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problem solved