Idk what to do might create another one for different problem

[flint haven]

I can't fucking deal with this bro.My mom is like semi homophobic and it's worse because I don't know what she thinks.She thinks I'm too young to be Omniromantic( which is like pan). She still thinks i only like boys and it makes me so uncomfortable.She also keeps pushing me to wear dresses and says I like girly things all the time.The thing is like,I am genderfluid/omnigender but starting to lean more and more towards he/they pronouns.It really upsets me how she pushes on me to be a certain way....

[river shard]

Omg, you and me have so much in common. My mother is the EXACT same way and it annoys the hell out of me ISTG.

She's always been forcing this role of me being completely straight and masculine, which is the most typical stereotype for a male, but that's not what I am and never will be.

I am whoever I SAY I am, so my best advice for you is to tell your mother that what you decide and say is YOUR CHOICE and not hers. This is YOUR life and NOT hers, so she needs to stop forcing and projecting traditional, typical values and standards on you when it doesn't align with your standards/values.

Your choices, thoughts, and words matter too, not just hers. You are whatever YOU say you are and NOT what she says you are. She needs to take a hint and leave you as you are.

[flint haven]

THANK UUU

[rocky osprey]

My mom sorta outed myself for her and sai "All the adults knew since i got into foster care /:" i wanted to tell her how i walk is not how you tell how someone is gay

[flint haven]

That sucks I'm sorry

[rocky osprey]

we were at the doctors and it asked on paper sexuality and i didnt fill it in so my mom said "Im pretty sure we know this one" /:

[flint haven]

BROO...

[gloomy lion]

WTF

[rocky osprey]

Mhm

[flint haven]

THATS CRAZY

[river shard]

Wow, the absolute audacity of that woman.

[rocky osprey]

Yeah. And she said it’s because the way I walk 😓 😓 😓 😭 😭 😭

[river shard]

The way someone walks does not determine sexuality. People can walk or act feminine and can be either straight or gay. Same goes for people who walk and act masculine, but in this case, she believes you are gay (which you are) because of how you walk, but that's not necessarily true.

How can she be so ignorant?

[rocky osprey]

I told her that’s just a stereotype and yet she said it isn’t

[river shard]

It is actually but I can tell she's stubborn and ignorant like omg. She's insane.

[rocky osprey]

Most the time yeah

[river shard]

I'm so sorry you're going through that. Continue to live your truth though regardless of what she says about you.

[river shard]

She needs to understand that behavior and mannerisms ≠ sexuality, and the same goes for pronouns ≠ sexuality.

[rocky osprey]

Yeah, gonna have to come out again but for non-binary though

[river shard]

If she ever criticizes or scolds you, always remain confident in who you are and what you are, no matter what. You got this!!

[rocky osprey]

Thanks