Bro I need some advice

[fickle jay]

I have a small feeling I might have some sort of mental illness but idk how to go about asking to get tested because my family is under stress and I don’t even know if it’s worth getting tested because I don’t know if it’s really there or not because I’ve experienced some sort of symptom things for a long time but because I feel like if im different it’s bad and if im mentally ill then I just can’t be good enough and don’t deserve nice things so I’ve put it off and now I don’t function like I should.

[bronze thorn]

Financial stress or?

[fickle jay]

Nah

School

Or wait

Yes oh my god I read that wrong

And also just work stress

[bronze thorn]

Can you function without meds and treatment so far?

[bronze thorn]

Also like most people arent perfect
There's no such thing as being normal
If you dont harm anyone, it's find
You dont have to conform to anything

There's no merit to being good enough, you are here, just do whatever good you can, life is just life, it shouldnt be a place you exist to torture yourself

[fickle jay]

Ish

[bronze thorn]

good enough

[fickle jay]

I don’t have any meds anyway

[bronze thorn]

if you are trying, you are doing great
your best might not look like other's best, but that doesnt matter