Not sure how to cope with this

[bleak pasture]

I'm not sure how to cope with this, but after this member tried to 1 up thinking their life is worse it really triggered me, my dad would tell my abuser right in front of me "you can beat her just don't leave bruises" and every day till I ran away he'd say "you're not my real daughter" and when the kenzi sky chick tried having beef acting like her life is worse, that really got to me, like being disowned isn't as bad as being told by your own father what I was told. If this can be settled it's much appreciated, thanks

Another member has also noticed she tried getting into it with other members, just the way she's acting is triggering to my mental health and isn't good for it

I feel something should be done about it because with her going around saying stuff like that I feel it won't be good for the servers members, mentally

[grand palm]

It’s not about whose life is better or worse. you don’t need to compare yourself to anyone. We all face hard times, and it’s important to overcome them. If you need help doing that, I’m here for you.

And anyone here is here for that

(sorry if my english is not perfect i'm french)

[grand palm]

Can you say who is he in private? Or make a ticket

[bleak pasture]

That part is personal since he's like a friend now, I did also mostly post this hoping a mod would see this. Because with her going around saying stuff like that will trigger other members, I was just talking about how kind my adoptive parents were until she said "and I thought my life was worse" then trauma dumped, and it made me mad / triggered me, i did sorta snap at her cause of the fact she did that

[grand palm]

We cant said that, it isn't polite at all. And it's can't help anyone by reading it, (sorry i dont have the time to finish my message i gtg at my college i'm still a minor)