I’ve come to conclusion that my family will never accept the real me and I think that I’m going to hide it no matter what for the rest of my life till grave. One time I tried coming out my mom started crying and of course I said I’m joking, but my brother, he believed me and he bullied me. I’ve kept it to myself. I am bisexual. I will never come out. I am too scared. I feel ashamed because my family will dislike me and I love my family, unfortunately.
#Coming out will never happen
faint palm
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@faint palm I’m really sorry you’ve had to carry that pain and fear for so long. It’s heartbreaking that the people who are supposed to love us unconditionally can be the very ones who make us feel like we have to hide who we truly are. What you’ve been through—especially the courage it took to try and come out, only to be met with rejection and bullying—is not something anyone should have to endure.
You’re not alone in feeling torn between love for your family and the hurt they cause when they can’t or won’t accept you. That conflict is real, and it’s valid. But please know this: being bisexual isn’t something to be ashamed of. Your identity is not wrong, and it isn’t something that needs to be hidden in a grave. It’s part of who you are—and who you are is worthy of love, respect, and peace.
Even if you choose not to come out again, that doesn’t make your truth any less real. You deserve a life where you feel free and safe, even if that freedom starts within you. And one day, I hope you can find or build a space—chosen family, friends, community—where you are seen fully and loved completely. You matter, just as you are.
if you ever need to talk more, my dms are alwayyys open